Let me put some sense in u... Akhekho umuntu uzok thanda then after that the same person ak phule entliziyo... There is no such a thing as e mistake in cheating... U can develop someone's feelings while u are in love with another person...And there is no such "bengim thandela emali" no wena u thanda emali hayi yena... At some point u became useless because of the things you do..."U can't see what you have until u see it go" no we can see what we have but we don't think we are going to lose it... Actually pain is part of life but breaking someone's heart or breaking a promise is not part of life is part of your choices... Some people out there they wish to be in a relationship like yours now or they wish to be loved like your "ex" loved u but u keep on playing them... actually u are not playing them but u are fooling yourself and u are wasting your time...wars part u are wasting there time 2... Loving someone back is easy but trusting that person again is very hard... I know sinalento yokhuthi "ngifuna lento ngiyavaya","ngifuna ukhumudla emali kphela"... Actually think if ukhona ukhu mudla emali and u hlala naye um thanda on top of that...just think the things he\she can do for u... Majita abo "Ngiya hlaba ngiya ndlula" ayi spani lento guys e useless... What if u khule because of that...the u hambe uyo khulisa ominye umtwana... This as HIV and AIDS won't even end if we continue to live like this... Our doctors are trying their best to stop HIV and AIDS... They created condoms for protection but uyalala ngapha na ngapha uya hlaba as long uma dumani a vukha... Girls nani love yourselves ungavumi umakhaveli akhu hlabe angafakhanga e condom...I don't know ukhuthi bakhano bani ezolo ayenzani,Nini,khanjani... Life is nice if we live in peace, cheating is not an option is choice... Then when u get sick uzothi abantu bakhu loyile... Be responsible for your life...